California Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist


You, Yourself & You

You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself.
The single relationship truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to self.
It is rewarding to find someone whom you like, but it is essential to like yourself.
It is quickening to recognize that someone is a good and decent human being,
but it is indispensable to view yourself as acceptable.
It is a delight to discover people who are worthy of respect
and admiration and love, but it is vital to believe yourself deserving of these things.

For you cannot live in someone else.
You cannot find yourself in someone else.
You cannot be given a life by someone else.
Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one
you will never leave or lose.
To the question of your life, you are the only answer.
To the problems of your life, you are the only solution.